https://www.shanisilver.com/contact daily 0.75 2026-03-30 https://www.shanisilver.com/about daily 0.75 2026-03-30 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/cdaeb62a-dc93-4cd6-8e98-69bbc05e17bc/shimshamball.jpeg About Mardi Gras season 2025 in New Orleans. More glitter, I say. https://www.shanisilver.com/shani-silver-press daily 0.75 2026-04-01 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/c0395ff8-1be9-467b-b11e-23b3cb19a647/nytimes-logo-square.jpg Appearances & Press - Why Marriage, for So Many, Is Less Appealing Than Ever Interviewed by Tammy LaGorce for the New York Times. Read it here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/e1668112-f33e-49f1-80e1-44e918a96c67/images.jpeg Appearances & Press - All The Cool Girls Are Single In Their 40s I wrote this article for Jenny Magazine. Read it here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/74ab3d0d-4315-47d5-9467-82c97b04c6bb/Screenshot+2025-01-14+at+6.58.47%E2%80%AFAM.png Appearances & Press - Spinsterhood Reimagined Host Lucy Meggeson had me back on her podcast to share my greatest hits, essentially. ;) Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/b0a1309e-7838-46ad-8591-ffd2369ed21d/images.png Appearances & Press - The Atlantic Quoted in “The People Who Quit Dating” by Faith Hill. Read here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/907bb7f7-6e16-46d3-a097-2d6f16b2d531/Screenshot+2024-05-17+at+6.55.38%E2%80%AFAM.png Appearances & Press - NPR’s It’s Been A Minute Podcast I join host Brittany Luse and KCRW’s Myisha Battle in a discussion on current dating culture trends—and mistakes. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/d3a0cec9-190d-41fd-97c5-e1de245e8da3/Screenshot+2024-12-08+at+7.31.47%E2%80%AFAM.png Appearances & Press - CNN Health Interviewed for this article on enjoying the holidays as a single person. Read it here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/38335df3-7633-4af1-8aaf-ea2a1781a220/ab6765630000ba8adc26f4b9ba834168fbb5cd33.jpeg Appearances & Press - Go Love Yourself One of my absolute favorite appearances, subscribe to this podcast immediately! Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/8925c36d-8262-40b4-8a40-d15125d2c5fd/Screenshot+2023-02-28+at+6.55.59+AM.png Appearances & Press - Kinda Dating I join host, comedian, and TV writer Natasha Chandel to discuss A Single Revolution, and how it might actually be happening as we speak. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/5adfea45-8e89-4df0-84a7-185bc781db76/Diversifying+3000+x+3000.jpg Appearances & Press - CNN’s Diversifying Podcast I join host Delyanne Barros to discuss the financial benefits of couplehood in comparison to singlehood, as well as the celebrations of couplehood that have yet to be reciprocated for singles. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/6506d9c5-4a65-4575-b2b3-1f20b3bd333b/Screen+Shot+2022-09-01+at+9.04.24+AM.png Appearances & Press - The New York Times Interviewed for and quoted in coverage of the mental health toll that dating and dating apps can have on singles participating in current dating culture. Read it here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/8abadb69-5de7-43c9-aecd-8559ea29d3a8/jenhatmaker.jpg Appearances & Press - For The Love Podcast I join host Jen Hatmaker to discuss choosing to be happily single—which can happen WITHOUT choosing to be single forever. A great listen for anyone who feels limited in their approach to single life and/or the search for partnership. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/63c22dc2-afc9-430e-a916-aaf4fb49b8cb/Screenshot+2023-07-19+at+6.43.02+AM.png Appearances & Press - Circling The Drain This one’s so fun. These ladies have a podcast dedicated to perimenopause and GOOD FOR THEM. I loved meeting and chatting with Ellie and Julia and look forward to being a listener of their’s. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/cb27db81-2eae-46a8-8ee7-886c404ddb3e/logog.png Appearances & Press - WNPR Connecticut I joined host Lucy Nalpathanchil on Where We Live to discuss my book, changing the narrative, and respond to live callers! Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/62322eb4-d5c8-4f5c-a809-3752f3d2f73f/Screenshot+2023-07-05+at+9.16.16+AM.png Appearances & Press - How To Find Joy June Suepunpuck and I discuss connecting with joy during singlehood, a time we’ve been told doesn’t have much of it. Major narrative re-writes. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/6b541dda-183a-487f-bc36-3df929dcc292/DB37F7DD-ED88-4963-8219-0DBDB439C8D8.jpg Appearances & Press - Dating Games Podcast I join host Bobby Temps to challenge MANY of the main narratives currently causing single shame. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1596968943646-RB11G3MFTHIV8RWULHBH/nprlogo_rgb_whiteborder_custom-7c06f2837fb5d2e65e44de702968d1fdce0ce748-s800-c85.png Appearances & Press - NPR, All Things Considered August 2020, discussing my Every Single Day column on Refinry29 coming to an end with host Leila Fadel. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/7de813fc-67cd-4c40-b54d-37085e842c6d/Screen+Shot+2022-02-04+at+1.42.36+PM.png Appearances & Press - Mashable Quoted in support of the publication of Unattached, a 30-woman anthology on singlehood. Read it here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/d9a2c61d-91ae-488c-9a82-73ee56226f5d/steph.silverlake.+nateluskphoto-61+copy.jpg Appearances & Press - Oh! Stephco YouTube Stephanie Comfort interviews me for her brilliant YouTube channel, we dive deeply into the VERY REAL feelings, thoughts and experiences of single women. Watch it here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/deda1c4f-feb9-45d8-bc77-387032a0a723/Screen+Shot+2021-11-19+at+8.24.05+AM.png Appearances & Press - The Expanded Podcast I join host Jessica Gill on The Expanded Podcast with Lacy Phillips to discuss reframing rejection and gaining self worth. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/a9dcce92-24ab-4790-8dc8-c5ddfc533db6/MV5BZmFlY2RhZTUtMzg3Ny00YWFhLTk4NWYtMzFlYzZiMmZkNzk3XkEyXkFqcGdeQXVyMTkzODUwNzk%40._V1_.jpg Appearances & Press - Tamron Hall Show I appeared on the Tamron Hall show during an episode titled, “You Are Enough.” Watch the clip here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/a628bd0e-e21f-4388-9700-7c43fe7466c0/Kara%27s+Podcast.jpeg Appearances & Press - Unf*ck Your Brain I join Kara Loewentheil to discuss a happy singlehood that can coexist with wanting partnership. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/9ed41aa0-1875-4032-a013-b5857c9567ca/damona+hoffman.jpeg Appearances & Press - Dates & Mates I join Damona Hoffman to discuss single shaming and moving forward through life as a single person without society’s negative singlehood narratives. For two different and insightful takes on dating apps, press play. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1594131556722-36KMBQRQ5M9E27I53ID6/Screen+Shot+2020-07-07+at+10.18.21+AM.png Appearances & Press - Unladylike Joining the Unladylike podcast as part of their 3-episode series on How To Live Single. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1587295080616-VKC1W8D5PHVDTFJS1I35/nprlogo_rgb_whiteborder_custom-7c06f2837fb5d2e65e44de702968d1fdce0ce748-s800-c85.png Appearances & Press - NPR, All Things Considered April 2020 discussion of isolating while living alone as a single woman with host Michel Martin. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1622544280833-MDW2NC17OMZ6AS1EBXO1/95F916BC-ED61-4283-8BEC-F8296B4094EE.jpg Appearances & Press - BBC Business Daily Nancy Jo Sales and I are interviewed by host Tamasin Ford on the dating industry, and everything we don’t have to let it get away with. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/9963f70e-b98c-4a0f-91f9-abc085bc21a3/Madness+Cafe.jpeg Appearances & Press - Madness Cafe I join the hosts of Madness Cafe for a fun discussion where we challenge MANY of the singlehood narratives that negatively affect singles. This is their most popular episode to date! Watch it here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/66d8619b-5407-4711-9d71-1bd847fc9421/single+minded.jpg Appearances & Press - Single Minded I’m back with Hannah Furst on Single Minded discussing my book, A Single Revolution. We hadn’t spoken since before the pandemic and had a lot to catch up on! Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1614250983634-MC6QOBXRCU24OR0FVYG0/GzEgF7DJs7.png Appearances & Press - WNPR, Where We Live I join host Lucy Nalpathanchil as well as guests Damona Hoffman and Trevor Crow Mullineaux in a pre-Valentine’s Day discussion of how love and singlehood are being experienced during a pandemic. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1622031028709-VJ10OTNPZT8FIF80P0RD/unnamed.png Appearances & Press - The Life Actually Podcast Laura Behnke hosts this incredibly expansive podcast, and I joined her to challenge all of life’s little “shoulds” around being single and dating. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1634212285637-GHU6JM8IH5UYE4YDQJTL/Shani+4+E7.png Appearances & Press - The Stork & I Podcast I joined Mel Johnson on her single parenthood-focused podcast to discuss my child-free choice, as well as to discuss how dating and desiring parenthood are often unfairly conjoined. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1634212523977-L6PBNY38TB7D3XUK69GY/Screen+Shot+2021-10-14+at+6.54.12+AM.png Appearances & Press - 51 First Dates Podcast I’m back with Kimmy and Liza for another appearance on 51 First Dates, how lucky am I?? We discuss my forthcoming book (!!!), perspectives on singlehood, and just generally enjoy each other’s company for awhile. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1614248910961-QDNYVP173OQQKMVV22A8/513vmjCahNL._SL500_.jpg Appearances & Press - Single Minded In February of 2021 I joined Hannah Furst on her podcast to discuss the lift that comes with reframing singlehood for yourself. We are more free right now than we will ever be. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1599064879606-G9ZJWWY1BFGROX9QU7DL/IMG_6640.JPG Appearances & Press - 1.5x Speed by Vulture Very kind words in Vulture’s podcast-centric newsletter by Nick Quah. Read more https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1598606311065-3EXGV740QXPFV5VC5JON/EgflnQwVkAAcB0n.jpg Appearances & Press - The Alonement Podcast Discussing the choice to enjoy single life while at the same time being open to partnership with host Francesca Specter. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1614250763200-180HVDTFEGSR518RS8XH/Screen+Shot+2021-02-25+at+5.58.45+AM.png Appearances & Press - Fashion Journal Australia Hannah Furst’s reflections on singlehood following our chat on her podcast. Read here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1608030405152-ZX7NRBN66NVRBLJLCOPS/ThrivingSoloPodcast.jpg Appearances & Press - Thriving Solo with Jennifer Fields I joined Jennifer Fields on her podcast to discuss changing the singlehood narrative, a really good listen if you’re new to my work. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1627989146771-7KRGQPRFCKK39YY95A8D/Screen+Shot+2021-08-03+at+6.12.15+AM.png Appearances & Press - Self-Sabotaging Sagas Shani joins host Genea Barnes in a discussion of singlehood and self worth. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1608054602956-2N7MJJOLOZOZCFP7TO7I/Copy+of+Copy+of+Copy+of+TURNING+30+PODCAST.png Appearances & Press - Turning 30 Podcast Discussing single shaming and the strategies for dealing with it on Emma Wilson’s Turning 30 Podcast. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1607010714170-3WKXRNTWVQTEX2UOSA8N/IMG_9017.jpeg Appearances & Press - Torch with Tiana Madera Singlehood Gets An Upgrade! Reframing singlehood with an remarkably warm and authentic host. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1582646808227-EGOEHY0M3LSSV2KIK2UT/IMG_0840.jpeg Appearances & Press - 51 First Dates I joined Liza and Kimmy to talk through reframing the way we think about being single. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1572353213314-JFUNU265MN6FVVESMSVV/Screen+Shot+2019-10-29+at+8.46.39+AM.png Appearances & Press - NORMALIFE! Guest on Norma Kamali’s podcast NORMALIFE! discussing societal ideas around aging and how they relate to single women. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1587736323831-VG7IF1BFFCXRVBIIM5KG/1.jpg Appearances & Press - Clarity On Fire Discussing How To Stop Hating Being Single with host Rachel East. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1584879061380-G4KQOJVL96NPIGPCLM3Z/Screen+Shot+2020-03-22+at+8.10.04+AM.png Appearances & Press - The Sunday Times Style Barometer Included in the “Heating Up” section on 3/22/20. (Photo is Melody Godfred, a former guest, founder of Fred & Far self love rings, and one of my best friends on earth.) https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1556887383197-DMPQ6N7U3BNDORA0Y15D/One-Part-Podcast-Art.jpg Appearances & Press - One Part Podcast Guest on Jessica Murnane’s podcast discussing deleting your dating apps and being happy being single. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1584443648320-L4B0RQ1D4Q1L1NOXZF8T/194+-+Shani+Silver.png Appearances & Press - Real Talk Radio Guest on Nicole Antoinette’s podcast discussing changing single stigma (among other things), a really deep dive, love this one. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1617124288692-IEBZ6UQY26CCG7XDNL6X/Screen+Shot+2021-03-30+at+12.57.09+PM.png Appearances & Press - Flip Flops Podcast With host Angelique Gay, discussing making big changes from past narratives in work and singlehood. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1596463420714-87L7MF6J35BXJ481C9NJ/Screen+Shot+2020-08-03+at+10.02.39+AM.png Appearances & Press - Cut The Small Talk I joined Danielle Maglente on her podcast to discuss shedding old narratives around being single. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1586267765705-XBF8MSQLZ0C7MOB5CSY5/Screen+Shot+2020-04-07+at+9.54.02+AM.png Appearances & Press - The Calm Collective I joined Cassandra Eldridge to discuss dismantling the stigma of being single. Listen here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1580555604978-KCUNAMQWTLOS6I2BKOPD/Screen+Shot+2020-02-01+at+6.12.35+AM.png Appearances & Press - Slate France Quoted in Jennifer Padjemi’s article on single life. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1579546312464-FIJ1SBVJKK0YUNPHUFPB/unnamed.png Appearances & Press - The Sunday Soother Guest on Catherine Andrew’s weekly podcast discussing intention, intuition, self worth, and more. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1576154212601-50C52YCU92TVHW2NQF47/Screen+Shot+2019-12-12+at+7.35.43+AM.png Appearances & Press - No Such Thing As Love Guest on comedians Jesse Jolles and Claire Burns’ weekly podcast discussing how being single isn’t something broken we have to fix. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1565108495643-P0Z8L695PNMAPPWSRM1K/NikkiNovo_Ep26_GstIG.jpg Appearances & Press - The Final Swipe Guest on Nikki Novo’s podcast, discussing making a change to the way we view being single, and enjoying this time in our lives. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1562766239131-54Y6XYYRZMJ7TKMSDIHK/unnamed.jpg Appearances & Press - Hashtag No Filter Guest on Julie Lauren’s podcast discussing the need for change in headspace and the discussion around being single and dating. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1559036985378-QG5O7ZRU8SITF1XNRQH4/Screen%2BShot%2B2019-05-28%2Bat%2B5.47.36%2BAM.jpg Appearances & Press - kaur.space Interviewed for personal branding article, “What happens to our sense of identity when we brand ourselves?” https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1557174404719-V48XG4EC68U73AHIOBDM/Screen%2BShot%2B2019-05-06%2Bat%2B4.23.03%2BPM.jpg Appearances & Press - HBR Women At Work Guest on Harvard Business Review’s podcast Women At Work, discussing being single and child-free in the workplace. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1550927336560-L9YCRDGOJDZQSL1ETGBV/NPRLogo_RGB.png Appearances & Press - NPR, All Things Considered Interviewed by host Michel Martin on approaching the holidays as a single woman. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1550927434096-T70ZTDYWHUQW1I2S73MF/download.png Appearances & Press - The New York Times Interviewed by Alex Williams on the end of courtship. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1550927616309-5VBMCKUCODVXSEOTYKCU/149881_original.jpg Appearances & Press - SXSW Panelist Speaker, Go Native or Go Home, Ads and Addictive Content https://www.shanisilver.com/podcast daily 0.75 2025-04-14 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1631014271558-DLTXD70DOP70RAO956O7/Podcast+Logo.png My Podcast https://www.shanisilver.com/work-with-shani-silver daily 0.75 2025-04-14 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1629901510332-UNGH1TKN5KWHRQRRTGB5/pexels-elle-hughes-5155218.jpg Work With Me - Work With Me https://www.shanisilver.com/nice-things-people-say-1 daily 0.75 2025-06-04 https://www.shanisilver.com/nice-things-people-say daily 0.75 2021-01-08 https://www.shanisilver.com/pick-my-brain daily 0.75 2024-03-24 https://www.shanisilver.com/a-single-revolution daily 0.75 2026-03-03 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1634726806514-3RFIPRKY9FT9I4E6JXUV/FB%26LI-AvailableNow.jpg A Single Revolution: Don't Look For A Match, Light One - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://www.shanisilver.com/shani-silver-main daily 1.0 2026-03-30 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/ad8ab4e3-bbea-47cd-93ef-c4d3d5e21e14/2207EF0D-CCA4-49E6-B512-CC499842A014.jpg Shani Silver - I’m Shani Silver, Hello It’s pronounced like “rainy” with a “sh.” https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/9cb38ed4-56d9-4489-93c2-1929f1d749a5/Square.jpg Shani Silver - New Release! What If We Never Get Married: A Happily Ever Answer, is the second book by Shani Silver and explores a topic that can generate fear and worry among single women: the future. It’s time for reframing and perspective shifting around being single “forever.” Buy it here https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/dbb07104-7380-4fc1-9b8a-e555bffd00bc/a+single+revolution.jpg Shani Silver https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/1f962171-98e5-4980-947e-8485c0c95ef9/Podcast+Logo.jpg Shani Silver https://www.shanisilver.com/what-if-we-never-get-married-a-happily-ever-answer daily 0.75 2026-04-01 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5c66b30dd86cc979a0aa6540/195a2b7d-af25-4741-b614-f8f40e0e0958/Instagram.jpg What If We Never Get Married? - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.